My daughter, Alisa, is a LCDR and Flight Surgeon in the U.S. Navy stationed at the Iwakuni Marine Air Base in Iwakuni, Japan with her husband, Richard, and their two children, Nick, age 10, and Allie, age 6. When this couple realized they would be stationed in Japan, Richard began studying Japanese so they could get around and enjoy their tour of duty more. Upon arriving in Japan, they placed their daughter in a Japanese nursery school so that she, too, could learn the language. When we arrived for a four-week visit, they had been there for about fourteen months and had settled in very nicely. We stayed with them on base, and the letters that follow were sent to friends back home in the states.
Japan - Part I
The food here is to die for. I'm writing down my favorite dishes so I can try to find them when we get home. We have averaged one meal "out" a day since arriving.
One of the fun aspects of our stay here is that Rich has been studying
the language since arriving, thereby giving us wonderful
opportunities to interact with the locals. Furthermore, he is able
to read the language. Frankly, I think he should hire himself out as a
tour guide while he is here. He
is excellent! It makes our visit quite meaningful.
Japan - Part 2
I have to admit, I have felt much apprehension in coming to this country. Under the circumstances of the WWII war years, I felt we were right to drop the A Bomb, and I still do. I am glad, however, the decision to drop the bomb was not mine to make, for the suffering we inflicted on these people is beyond comprehension. A visit to Hiroshima has not been on MY list of things to do, for reasons of hypocrisy, fear of guilt, and not wanting to feel apologetic toward people who, most certainly, must hate us for the atrocity we committed.
Having said all that...Richard proceeded to take me and Bob to Hiroshima, to the Genbaku Dome at the Peace Memorial Park, and to the museum. Richard, my wonderful son-in-law, is truly a remarkable man, wise beyond his years, for it was a healing. I have not changed my views, but I have put it to rest. Rich has said that most people understand and do not hate us. How they feel toward their war lords and ours could be a different story, however. They are using their experience to take the opportunity, to try to lead the world to realize we MUST have world peace. They know all about war. They have been there, done that.
There was a charming moment as we were about to cross the bridge over the river in route to the museum. We were being overtaken by a class of elementary school students. Richard turned around and said "ohiogazimas" and the children broke into delighted smiles and laughter and returned "good morning" back at us. We continued to say "ohiogazimas" until all of them had gone by.
We went through the museum and saw two replicas of the area bombed, before and after, and the history leading up to the bomb. Then we went through the section containing the evidence: melted glass bottles, burned clothing of children, a bike, a tricycle, a broken Buddha, etc. And then there were the skin and fingernails of a young boy saved by a mother to show the out-of-town father when he returned after the boy died -- all pretty grim.
Not every American can hold themselves together while going through these rooms, but I was able to hang tough. I must admit it was pretty depressing. So, we were just about to leave the building and this teen-age boy came up to me, and in halting and embarrassed English he wanted to know how I felt about all this! Holy Moley! How could I put it into words? "Terrible" I said. And we talked for about ten minutes. I hope I was able to answer him with compassion and truth. And, no, I didn't use the words, "your war lords started it." I did, however, in the end, I DID direct the conversation toward world peace and environmental concerns and the oneness of all people. In the end, I think trumpets blew and the angels sang. I don't know for sure, but I certainly hope so. It took guts for that kid to ask the question. He deserved an honest answer. I sure hope he understood.
Japan - Part 3 - Konnichiwa (hello):
While Alisa has been island hopping in the Pacific this past year, Richard has been busy doing the Richard thing--attracting people. And the people he attracts, both American and Japanese, are a delightful, fun-filled lot. It does not surprise me that he has brought his family into a sort of cultural exchange with two other Japanese families.
As a result, Saturday night, we were invited to attend a performance of Kagura, or Temple Dancing. Frankly, I thought we were watching Kabuki, but no, it was Kagura, which may be likened to "light opera" and Kabuki, which could be compared to "grand opera" -- Japanese style, of course. Drums and flute accompanied the performance, and the costumes, some of which probably weighed forty pounds and had massive gold embroidery, must have cost a fortune.
Half the audience sat on a ground tarp in front of the stage and the rest stood around the perimeter in front of the concession stands where you could purchase food at any time during the performance if you become hungry. You didn't have to wait for the end of an act to eat. At one point, they interrupted the story-dancing with some comic relief, after which they threw rice cakes into the audience. Although we didn't catch any, our Japanese friends collected four little bags for us out-of-towners to take home. They were terrible. We learned later, we should not have micro waved them.
We left after about three hours and the performance ran another hour and a half. I wish we could have seen it all. Back at a Japanese home, we had tea and treats and chatted for another hour.
On Sunday, we had the most interesting experience of all. The town of Otake was having their annual parade to celebrate the Harvest Celebration, and we were invited to another Japanese home located at the starting point of that parade. What luck! We could not have planned our trip for a better time.
Our hostess, one of Rich's students, served us "snacks" which
turned out to be a complete
meal of my favorite foods.
(Rich had told
them what I liked). After lunch, the children put on their "happy
coats" to be in the parade. Unexpectedly, our hostess had coats for
both Nick and Allie, but they were reluctant and had to be coaxed into
joining the parade--for just a block. Well, at the end of that block, they
were having so much fun pulling a float, they stayed on to the end of the
parade. I ran through two and a half rolls of film. What an experience.